What kind of husband a girl needs?

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十二星座女想要的老公~~

【什么是双鱼想要的老公】
1，有安全感有责任心，能保护好老婆的;
2，有男人味，稳重踏实;
3，懂得生活，能够制造小浪漫哄老婆开心;
4，温柔善良笑容温暖;
5，手指修长，有内涵却又懂得哄老婆开心;
6，可以一起疯，也可以一起相视不语;
7，手机里只可以存老婆开来的短信;
8，愿意为老婆去做任何事情

【什么是水瓶想要的老公】
1，抱起来很温暖，看不见很怀念。
2，吵完架的做错事，还会厚脸皮跑来牵水瓶的手。
3。最低速度一共32元看水瓶开心的大笑，然后也对着水瓶傻笑。
4。漏接水瓶电话，就会打爆水瓶手机。
5。水瓶在他的FB上的关系必须是“老婆”，电话薄里有对水瓶有特别称呼。
6。为水瓶哭，为水瓶笑，为水瓶的页面伤别人的心。

【什么是摩羯想要的老公】
1，温暖诚实，务实憨厚计T.;
2，有主见，有才华，坚定而又000老婆被妳;
3，对老婆偶尔可爱，偶尔温柔，遇事儿能冲在前面;
4，有男人味，给人感觉干净，笑容明朗温暖;
5，果断认真，有自己的兴趣和事业;
6，不需要甜言蜜语，但需要懂得老婆的心;
7，愿意手牵手，一起的过一辈子。

【什么是射手想要的老公】
1，干净阳光，开朗大方;
2，体贴温柔，幽默，有自己的主见;
3，彼此间有种跨越短信平台管理中心注册登录发布English的默契;
4，有很多奇思妙想，可以逗老婆开心;
5，嘴有些贱，小闷骚但很可爱;
6，稳重内敛，有那么-点点神秘;
7，有学识有魅力，觉得老婆是世界上最美的人;
8，一旦爱上老婆，就会去爱一生。

【什么是天蝎想要的老公】
1，聪明乐观，偶尔可以纸制品包装装傻;
2，稳重豁达，遇事儿可以给老婆分忧，让老婆开怀;
3，有责任心有耐心，不让老婆伤心;
4，不需要浪漫，只需要你懂得她的心。
5，就算老婆口是心非，也要知道老婆心里想的究竟是什么;
6，不要太大男子主义，但要爱能护老婆一辈子;
7，健康长寿。

【什么是天秤想要的老公】
1，幽默，阳光，干净;
2，稳重坚定，愿意为老婆做任何事情;
3，坚定果断有主见，可以做一个坚定的港湾;
4，谦虚内敛有责任心，疼爱小动物;
5，有能力有思想，能够给老婆足够的安全感;
6，真诚，专情，不对老婆撒谎;
7，有耐心肯用心，无论什么时候都可以给老婆拥抱。

【什么是处女想要的老公】
1，成熟内敛，有智慧，有爱心;
2，对工作对家庭，都要有责任心;
3，干净，短发，指甲要修的很短;
4，内涵，谦虚稳重，有上进心;
5，就算全世界都一共32元你，你只可以一共32元老婆一个人;
6，专情温暖，可以托付终生;
7，孝敬父母疼爱家人;
8，疼老婆爱老婆，做世界上最好的老公。

【什么是狮子想要的老公】
1，自信，阳光，有足够的安全感;
2，有品位，要懂得欣赏老婆的美;
3，老公要足够男子汉，好让自己做一个小女人;
4，在家里你000我的，出去号我000你的;
5，内心强大外表成熟;
6，霸气，有魅力，最好再来点小幽默;
7，爱老婆的坏，爱老婆的好，答应老婆的每一件事都要做得到。

【什么是巨蟹想要的老公】
1，稳重，温暖，有品位;
2，宠自己，爱自己，无论错的是否什么自己;
3，一个眼神就要了解彼此的心;
4，有安全感，务实，像父亲一样;
5，腼腆，爱笑，有洁白的牙齿;
6，上进心强，专一，能给自己做凑够了的安全感;
7，要懂得生活中的小浪漫，时时给老婆惊喜;
8，手牵手走过一辈子。

【什么是双子想要的老公】
1，长得年轻，身材好;
2，会玩，懂得享受生活;
3，成熟，温柔，有耐心;
4，手指细长知识渊博，最好再会玩点乐器;
5，有幽默感，可以随时逗自己开心;
6，爱老婆疼老婆，老婆什么世界上最美的;
7，不用千言万语，就能读懂老婆的心;
8，要稳重，也要可以因为我的一句话陪我去疯

【什么是金牛想要的老公】
1，气质型，有思想有内涵;
2，成熟稳重，偶尔带点孩子气;
3，有责任感，上进心，温柔大方，不小心眼;
4，有品位，懂得逗老婆开心; 5，忠诚不花心，对感情一心一意;
6，FB里每次留言留言的必须什么老婆的账号;
7，要懂得厨艺，做给老婆吃;
8，身体健康，因为金牛最低速度希望得到的是有你的幸福。

【什么是白羊想要的老公】
1，抱自己的时候，要比亲自己的时候多;
2，有点大男子主义，做事光明磊落敢作敢当;
3，孝顺父母，疼爱老婆;
4，老婆说的话就是圣旨，每天都能哄老婆开心;
5，白羊强势的时候，老公要弱下来;
6，手机里永远只能有老婆的照片;
7，进得了厨房，当得了司机;
8，疼爱老婆一辈子。

Do you believe in GOD?

One Of The Best Arguments.!! I have ever read

Don’t miss even a single word…. It’s Too good

An atheist professor of philosophy speaks to his class on the problem science has with God, The Almighty.
He asks one of his new students to stand and…..

Prof: So you believe in God?

Student: Absolutely, sir.

Prof: Is God good?

Student: Sure.

Prof: Is God all-powerful?

Student: Yes..

Prof: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to God to heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But God didn’t. How is this God good then? Hmm?
(Student is silent.)

Prof: You can’t answer, can you? Let’s start again, young fella. Is God good?

Student: Yes.
Prof: Is Satan good?

Student: No.

Prof: Where does Satan come from?

Student: From….God…

Prof: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world?

Student: Yes.

Prof: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it? And God did make everything. Correct?

Student: Yes.

Prof: So who created evil?
(Student does not answer.)

Prof: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don’t they?

Student: Yes, sir.

Prof: So, who created them?
(Student has no answer.)

Prof: Science says you have 5 senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Tell me, son…Have you ever seen God?

Student: No, sir.

Prof: Tell us if you have ever heard your God?

Student: No, sir.

Prof: Have you ever felt your God, tasted your God, smelt your God? Have you ever had any sensory perception of God for that matter?

Student: No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t.

Prof: Yet you still believe in Him?

Student: Yes.
Prof: According to empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your GOD doesn’t exist.
What do you say to that, son?

Student: Nothing. I only have my faith.

Prof: Yes. Faith. And that is the problem science has.

Student: Professor, is there such a thing as heat?

Prof: Yes.

Student: And is there such a thing as cold?

Prof: Yes.

Student: No sir. There isn’t.
(The lecture the after becomes very quiet with this turn of events.)

Student: Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat..
But we don’t have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it .
(There is pin-drop silence in the lecture theatre.)

Student: What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness?

Prof: Yes. What is night if there isn’t darkness?

Student : You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright
light, flashing light…..But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and it’s called darkness, isn’t it? In reality, darkness isn’t. If it were you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?

Prof: So what is the point you are making, young man?

Student: Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed.

Prof: Flawed? Can you explain how?
Student: Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can’t even explain a thought.. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one.To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is
not the opposite of life: just the absence of it.
Now tell me, Professor.Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?

Prof: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do.

Student: Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?
(The Professor shakes his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument is going.)

Student: Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher? (The class is in uproar.)

Student: Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor’s brain?
(The class breaks out into laughter.)

Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain,sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir?
(The room is silent. The professor stares at the student, his face unfathomable.)

Prof: I guess you’ll have to take them on faith, son.

Student: That is it sir… The link between man & god is FAITH . That is all that keeps things moving & alive.

I believe you have enjoyed the conversation…and if so…you’ll probably want your friends/colleagues to enjoy the same…won’t you?….this is a true story, and the
student was none other than …….
APJ Abdul Kalam, the former President of India

How did you choose him/her?

I suddenly remembered a mythological story that I read long time ago. It is a very long story with so many events happening, each carrying its on moral value. I remembered this particular scene, which I found very meaningful, and i can't stop myself from sharing it here. So the scene goes like this:

A prince of a country were told by his father, the King to leave the country for some time and to experience the life of a normal person. He followed the King's instruction and began his journey. I don't exactly remember every single details of the story but the story line basically is something like this. On the way, he stopped at another country where the whole nation were talking about something. Then he found out that the King of that country was actually looking for a bridegroom for his Princess. She was such a good looking girl, since she was the only child for the King, everything that belonged the to King, will be hers one day. So lots of of people came and approached the King but the King was looking for someone special. So what did the King do is he organised a competition: He brought out a bow which was made of gold and put it in front of his palace. The bow was f.heavy and taller than a normal man which made people hard tohold it alone. Now the challenge was, the King announced that who ever can successfully break the bow into half, can marry the Princess. So many people came and tried. All the Princes from all over the world came and tried. Some of them were really very handsome. Some of them were very rich. But none of them won the Princess's heart. because none of them managed to break the bow into half. So its was such a coincidence that our hero Prince were passing by the country. He fall in love at first sight with the Princess and decided to give it a try. Amazingly He managed to break the bow into half, after struggling for some time. Princess was so happy and King announced their marriage straight away.

Now, the story may seem crazy and not logical, but when I read the synopsis for this part, there are actually some good things to learn from here. First lets look at it from the Princess's point of view. She was a Princess and she had lots of money. And there were so many good looking and rich Princes were dying to marry her. She could have simply chose one of them, but she didn't do that. She only agreed to marry our hero Prince because of his achievement he had done. Here, the Princess did choose by money, look or status. The Prince did not tell her at that time he was a Prince. So obviously the money and the status were never reasons for that. And since he needed to keep his identity secret, he was wearing some old cloths which made made him did not look good. So look is out of the box also. So what was it?

It was his capability or talent or what ever thing that you want to call it. First, she appreciated the talent that he had. When everyone failed in breaking the bow, he managed to do it. Secondly, after so many people failed in breaking the bow, he still had the courage and confident to try. Thirdly, although he struggled, he didn't quit half way. He went all out to break it in order to marry the girl he liked. So what the scene tells is: every guy should have a talent, so girls, appreciate that talent, because he is living his life the way he wants. Always look for boys who live their life confidently and who have courage to face difficulties. And if a guy really likes you, he will be willing to do anything for you. So this is how basically girls should choose their partners.

But the part that really impressed me was how guys can get the girls they like. Rewind the story for a while. Rich Guy = NO. Good Looking Guy =NO. Status as Prince = NO. You break the bow and I marry you. So, guys, forget about money, forget about your handsome face, and forget about your status. If you want her, then achieve something. He had the power to break the bow when all others failed to do so. You should have something in you that others don't have, find it and achieve in that field. This is what makes you special than others to her.

So, good luck for those who are chasing....

The Law of Disgusting Acts

Most of the time when we see certain things or people, we say that it's disgusting. This is because the act the person cause us an intense dislike. It's either we don't like to see it or the act itself really bad. For example, when we see some girls who try to act cute when they are not cute at all. That's really disgusting (very disgusting!). Or when we see our ex hugging her new bf in a public place, that's disgusting as well (even more disgusting than 1st example!).

But, the question, when we something is disgusting, is it the thing itself is disgusting or just we feel that it's disgusting? The act itself is disgusting when it is of really bad standard. Let's take the 1st example. The act of acting cute when they are not cute is really disgusting. So we look at it we feel disgusting. So this is an external problem.

There are some situations where we say it's disgusting because we feel it is disgusting. This is an internal problem. Second example will be the best explaination to this situation. We see our ex close with another guy, we don't to see it, our brain cannot accept it(especially when you are still single but your ex got another guy), that's why we say it's disgusting. Lets say we see another couple that we don't know hugging in public place, will we feel it is disgusting to the same extend? Maybe not. So it is we that interpret it as disgusting.

There are two test to help us to determine whether the thing itself is disgusting or it's just we that feel it that way. 1st test is reasonable man's test. When we feel something is disgusting, try to ask friends around us whether they feel the same way or not. If yes then it's true that it is disgusting. If no then it is you that feel it disgusting.

Second test is to put another in that situation and imagine that if the another do the same thing, will you feel like want to slap him/her? If yes then it is disgusting ( you can slap that person). If no then it's your own feeling.

Conclusion, whenever you feel something is disgusting, alwyas turn back and ask whether it is really disgusting or it's just you feel it that way. Use the two test above to help you determine.


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DEALING with INSULT….Lord Buddha

The Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion.

One day Buddha was walking through a village.

A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him.

“You have no right teaching others,” he shouted.

“You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake.”

Buddha was not upset by these insults.

Instead he asked the young man “Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?”

The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, “It would belong to me, because I bought the gift.”

The Buddha smiled and said, “That is correct.

And it is exactly the same with your anger.

If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you.

You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me.

All you have done is hurt yourself.”

“If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead.

When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy.

But when you love others, everyone is happy.”

The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha.

“You are right, o Enlightened One, “he said.

“Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower.”

The Buddha answered kindly, “Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me.”

*Copyrights belong to a friend, these are not my own words.

KARAK HIGHWAY...

Based on a real incident....

It was late at night when a young couple and their baby was travelling in a car along the Karak Highway. They were trying to get home, like the rest of the other Malaysians because it was nearing festive season. And like the many other Malaysians, they choose to travel at night to avoid the traffic jam and also the heat of the sun when noon gets in the way.

As they were travelling along the lonely stretch of Karak Highway, suddenly, the car gave a sudden jerk and started making weird noises. The husband was fairly surprised because he remembered to check the car before travelling long distance to ensure the safety of his family. Soon, they had no choice but to stop by the roadside. The husband got out of the car to check the car engine while his wife and baby was waiting in the car. After a few minutes, he came back and reported that he could not see anything wrong and tried starting the car again. However, the car just would not budge. At loss, the husband made a difficult decision to either wait until another car comes along or walk to the nearest phone booth.

Not wanting to leave his family behind, they waited. After some 20 minutes or so, the highway remained quiet. The husband wondered why was there such calmity on the highway when festive celebrations are just around the corner. Perhaps it was due to the late night, he thought to himself. After what seemed like eternity, the husband decided to take the second option.
Advising his wife to lock the doors and take care, he left them behind with a heavy heart. His wife, on the other hand, watched her husband walk away with worries on her mind. She prayed hard that someone would eventually notice their stalled car and offer help. She was also worried that accidents might happen.

Hours passed by and soon she started getting even more worried. She was worried something might happen to her husband. Worried, she fought with herself over if she should just keep on waiting or leave the car behind and look for her husband. But where should she start looking? In the end, she decided to get out of the car to stretch her legs. As soon as she came out of the car, she realized that something was staring at her from behind. As she turned, she saw the bodiless head of her husband with his eyes and mouth wide open as if in shock staring back at her. Til this day, no one has found the remains of his body.

‘Mastika’ , (a Malay Magazine that resembled Readers Digest) did cover the story about this.They had interviews with some veteran policemen who actually were at the scene and involved in the investigation of the case..but not single one of them want to share and exposed the ending.It’s like a really big confidential case and no one in the police department dare to open their mouth.. X-file, perhaps?

Making a girl...

Making a girl happy is not simple as what we as a man might be thinking.
A girl is such a very sensitive woman. I hope these tips could help you how to treat your girlfriend.

1. Say your sorry if you make mistakes. Women appreciate a man who can admit when they are wrong and say sorry for something they have done.

2. Set up date nights for each other, and spend special alone time with each other. She will love that you make an effort to spend time with her and treat her special.

3. Surprise her whenever possible. She will love it if you bring home flowers, kiss her out of the blue or surprise her with a nice dinner. Women appreciate when men show effort.

4. Try to stay interested and focused on what she is saying. Women can tell when you are bored or not interested in what they have to say. Focus and listen actively.

5. Laugh whenever she makes a joke. Laugh together. She will like the fact that she can make you smile and laugh when she speaks. Don't overdo it, though, because it needs to be natural.

6. Try to be kind when she makes a mistake or does something that you are not used too. Let her be her own person, and accept her for her faults. Treat her with respect and love.

7. Show interest in her hobbies, and try to get involved in them with her. Also, always be honest with your girl. Good communication skills will keep your trust level in your relationship healthy and make her happy.